So most of you know the last couple weeks have been anything but easy for me. First I find out someone got my credit card number and racked up a number of purchases, then they opened a case at a law firm to "repair my credit" although my credit is fine, then someone stole my brand new phone. Oh and don't forget the dumb rent a cop that wrote me a parking ticket, there has been a lot of dumb little things that have happened, but I'm not going to come out of it with out learning something!
Since my credit card was stolen and it took a couple days to get a replacement it forced me to not spend money, and I'm continuing that, I made my first purchase on it last night and that was for gas, every credit card I own has a zero dollar balance. I went grocery shopping Sunday and disciplined myself to not spend a dime all week. I've never carried a balance on my credit card because I think at 21 having credit card debt when I don't have any kids or anything is horrible.
I've also always been a very open and trusting person, but again I've learned even among friends I can't leave my valuables lying around, and not everyone needs to know everything about me.
Yesterday I heared a guy friend of mine who lives in Chicago got out of his night class and was jumped by a couple guys, beat up pretty bad and had everything stolen. I'm pretty leary of walking alone at night, but this was a reminder that it can happen to anyone, just because your a guy walking alone at night doesn't mean someone isn't going to take advantage of you.
Lastly, if I can make it through all of this I can make it through anything.